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    • Dec
      18th
      2008
    • WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR CHRISTMAS? – FOOD FOR THOUGHT

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    SECTION: Bored at Work,Food for Thought,Just sayin'.....Christmas, ho! ho! ho!, honest, thought, want, year

      

        

    HO! HO! HO!

    WHAT DO YOU WANT FOR CHRISTMAS THIS YEAR?

    HAVE YOU THOUGHT ABOUT IT? BE HONEST….JUST A THOUGHT….

    Posted by Beautiful Stranger at 4:28 pm 0 Comments
    • Dec
      7th
      2008
    • PROFILE of A WOMAN OF COLOR…PART II : THE PROBLEM RUNS SKIN DEEP

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    SECTION: Food for Thought,In a Woman's World/Women's History,Learning About Myself,Venting,What do you think?African American, Beyonce, Dark Skinned black women, Light Skinned, Pretty, Rihanna, Struggle, Tyra Banks

    The typical Rihanna, Beyonce, Tyra Banks

    RIHANNA’S FASHION SENSE

    BEYONCE’S BEAUTY

    TYRA’S TENACITY

    PROFILE OF AN AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMAN PART II:

    WHY WOULDN’T ANY YOUNG WOMAN WANT TO BE LIKE ANY OF THESE WOMEN? RIGHT? RICH, BEAUTIFUL, ENVIED….HOWEVER, THINGS AIN’T ALWAYS WHAT IT SEEMS…..YOU DIG?  

    THERE ARE MANY OTHER WOMEN IN THE ENTERTAINMENT INDUSTRY THAT ARE JUST AS APPEALING AND INFLUENTIAL!!!   SO WHY THESE THREE?  I’M SURE YOUR LIST IS WAY DIFFERENT FROM MINE.  I THINK I CHOSE THESE THREE WOMEN BECAUSE THEY HAVE EITHER ACCOMPLISHED A LOT OR ARE BASICALLY ATTENTION WHORES! 

    REGARDLESS, THE PURPOSE OF THIS POST IS TO HIGHLIGHT THE PROBLEM THAT EXISTS BTWN WOMEN OF COLOR, UNFORTUNATELY THIS PROBLEM RUNS “SKIN DEEP.”   WE OFTEN FORM AN OPINION OF WOMEN OF COLOR ACCORDING TO  THEY WAY THEY LOOK OR ACT (ALL WOMEN REALLY, BUT THIS STUDY IS SPECIFICALLY GEARED TOWARDS AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN).  I AM SURE BY NOW YOU MAY OR MAY NOT HAVE HEARD OF YOUNG BERG (THE WHACK RAPPER) COMMENT ON DARK SKINNED BLACK WOMEN AND HIM REFERRING TO ALL OF THEM AS “DARK BUTTS”….STILL AN UNBELIEVABLE STATEMENT?!?!

    OR MORE COMMONLY SAID BY MOST PEOPLE IS….“You’re pretty for a dark skinned girl”  I THINK I’VE EVEN HEARD ONCE OR TWICE ….YOUR PRETTY FOR A BLACK GIRL!?! …ARE YOU SERIOUS? ANYWAY, WHY THE BLONDE EUROPEAN LONG HAIR WITH LIGHT COLOR EYES AND BLEACHED SKIN?  ARE WE NOT HAPPY ABOUT OURSELVES? OR IS IT PURELY JUST ABOUT BEING IN STYLE AND CREATING A STANDARD LOOK AN ACTRESS/ENTERTAINER/ETC. WOULD BE ASSOCIATED WITH?  WOULD YOU AGREE THAT ITS NO LONGER CALLED “ORIGINALITY” IF EVERYONE LOOKS THE SAME? 

    WHY STILL HAVE STEREOTYPES AND BASICALLY A “CASTE SYSTEM” FOR AFRICAN AMERICAN WOMEN EXIST IN THE YEAR 2008? IF I RECALL VIVIDLY, WE CURRENTLY HAVE OUR VERY FIRST AFRICAN AMERICAN IN THE WHITE HOUSE, THE MOST HISTORIC THING TO HAPPEN TO THIS COUNTRY BESIDES THE CIVIL RIGHTS MOVEMENT AND WOMEN GAINING THE RIGHT TO VOTE!!!!!!  CAN WE AS BLACK WOMEN GET IT TOGETHER?  IF THERE IS GOING TO BE THIS MUCH HATE, WHY DON’T WE JUST REWIND TO THE 1950s and 60s?  I FEEL LIKE THIS PROBLEM WILL CONTRIBUTE TO SETTING US BACK 20 YEARS AND WILL LEAVE US ON THE BOTTOM OF THE TOTEM POLE FOREVER …..

     

    I THINK IT WAS MY MEDIA STUDIES IDEAS CLASS WHERE SOMEONE SAID IN TERMS OF PROFESSIONAL ADVANCEMENT, “BLACK WOMEN ARE CONSIDERED AT THE BOTTOM OF THE PROFESSIONAL TOTEM POLE IN GETTING PAID THE LEAST AND HOLDING HIGH CORPORATE POSITIONS…FIRST ITS WHITE MEN, WHITE WOMEN, BLACK MEN, THEN BLACK WOMEN” 

    OF COURSE WE CANNOT ADVANCE IF WE CANNOT UNDERSTAND AND LOVE OURSELVES….TOO DAMN BAD ITS STILL A “STRUGGLE”…THE MORE AND MORE I USE THAT WORD (STRUGGLE), THE MORE I DISLIKE IT!

    WHERE WILL WE STAND IF WE CAN’T EVEN STAND FOR OURSELVES?

    THIS POST IS TO BE CONTINUED…..

    Posted by Beautiful Stranger at 7:16 pm 0 Comments
    • Dec
      3rd
      2008
    • BUSH SAYS …”I WAS UNPREPARED FOR WAR”….WOW!

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    SECTION: Believe It Or Not!!!,Food for Thought,I Swear.....,Important American Government & Politics,Life Is A .....,WTF?!?!,What do you think?Bush, Change, Exit Interview, Yes We Can!

    I can only imagine how many of you just read that statement and said out loud WTF? Which is usually the expression across Bush’s face anyway…So check this…Here is what Bush had to say two nights ago (Monday, December 1st) in his exit interview with Charles Gibson on ABC’s World News:

    I think I was unprepared for war,” Bush told ABC News’ Charlie Gibson in an interview airing today on “World News.”

     

    “In other words, I didn’t campaign and say, ‘Please vote for me, I’ll be able to handle an attack,’” he said. “In other words, I didn’t anticipate war. Presidents — one of the things about the modern presidency is that the unexpected will happen.”

    Bush, who has been a stalwart defender of the war in Iraq and maintaining U.S. troop presence there, said, in retrospect, the war exceeded his expectations.

    “A lot of people put their reputations on the line and said the weapons of mass destruction is a reason to remove Saddam Hussein,” Bush said. “It wasn’t just people in my administration. A lot of members in Congress, prior to my arrival in Washington, D.C., during the debate on Iraq, a lot of leaders of nations around the world were all looking at the same intelligence.”

    IN OTHER WORDS….HELLO AMERICA ….OH AND FUCK YOU!

    Its OK now though because we’ve got the right person in place to bring about some positive CHANGE…YES WE CAN!

    Posted by Beautiful Stranger at 4:54 pm 0 Comments
    • Nov
      18th
      2008
    • FOOD FOR THOUGHT…

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    SECTION: Food for Thought,Just sayin'.....,Life Is A .....,What do you think?Fat, Homeless, Hustling, Psychology

     

    I know this is dumb as hell (lol)…but I was just thinking

    Can a homeless person be

    FAT?

    (I guess I just thought of this because most homeless men I see are buying beer or drugs!?!…I mean I know they can be fat, but with no money to buy any food half the time..you’re not really gaining any weight…in fact they should be the most fit people in the world because they move from place to place hustling to stay alive)

    WHAT DO YOU THINK?  AM I BEING FOOLISH? 

    I can really get into the psychology of this, but at this time…I WON’T

    DISCUSS. (going to class now)

    Posted by Beautiful Stranger at 4:44 pm 0 Comments
    • Nov
      12th
      2008
    • Me and My Blackberry :(

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    SECTION: Food for Thought,Help Me!!!,Just sayin'.....,Venting,What do you think?Blackberry, Blueberry, Crackberry, Economy, mattress, Me

    LMAO…I THINK IT REALLY HAS COME TO THIS!!!

     

    So I cannot part ways with my blackberry..its literally always by my side! Is it a bad thing if I don’t actually know what any of my friends really sound like over the phone or that I don’t know how to dial out numbers anymore?  I guess I was just thinking about this the other day because I had an entire conversation with this dude via text and never once thought to actually call him so that it would at least sound more authentic!!!  What’s happening to society? Communication?  AM I A DAMN ROBOT? LOL….. A shame isn’t it?  I swear I will try to call someone this week even if its to say hi!  All you other blackberry/crackberry/blueberry users should too! LOL

    Just thought I’d share my frustration with this current relationship of mine :(

    (You’re probably thinking…if this is the only problem you got…WAKE UP BITCH!!!! the economy is crumbling….like I said, its just a thought..now back to hiding my money under my mattress :)

    Posted by Beautiful Stranger at 11:35 am 0 Comments
    • Oct
      26th
      2008
    • MY FAVORITE TV SHOW THIS SEASON IS….

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    SECTION: Favorites,Food for ThoughtEthics Seminar, The office

    I was watching tonight’s episode on an “Ethics Seminar” and the joint was HILARIOUS!…One of the employees said…”Why can’t I take a long lunch break, smokers get to go outside whenever they want to take a break and spend as long as they want…if I have to take up smoking..I WILL just to get  a long break!” and another employee answered that chic by saying…”Oh yeah…I’ll smoke with you, I’ve got a pack of cigars in my purse girl!” LMAO….gosh..I LOVE THIS SHOW!  Speaking of great shows…what the hell every happened to Arrested Development?

    Just thought I’d share

    Posted by Beautiful Stranger at 9:42 pm 0 Comments
    • Oct
      23rd
      2008
    • Misconceptions within the current President election

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    SECTION: Believe It Or Not!!!,Did you know that....?,Food for Thought,Foolywang Materials/ Absurd Sh&%^!,From The Say It Ain't SO Files,I Swear.....,Important American Government & Politics,Just sayin'.....,Life Is A .....,Society Disturbed,Strange But True News,THE U.S. Economy,This just in....,UNBELIEVABLE!!!!,Venting,WTF?!?!,What do you think?,What is your purpose in life?Democratic, McCain, Misconceptions, Obama, Republican

    IS IT OR IS IT NOT 2008 PEOPLE?  IF SO…WHAT GIVES WITH THIS VIDEO?  I was even reading the comments below this YOUTUBE Video and was just in AWE of how divided this nation really is…..STILL

    THIS IS OUR FUTURE WE ARE TALKING ABOUT…WHETHER ITS MCCAIN OR OBAMA…THERE IS STILL THE WAR & ECONOMIC CRISIS THAT NEEDS OUR ATTENTION

    Please look at the YOUTUBE video below and garner your own reaction

     

    Posted by Beautiful Stranger at 10:07 am 0 Comments
    • Oct
      22nd
      2008
    • FOOD FOR THOUGHT SERIES: The Phenomena that is Sarah Palin…ever wonder why…?

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    SECTION: Believe It Or Not!!!,Food for Thought,Funny Ish,I Swear.....,Important American Government & Politics,Just sayin'.....,Venting,Voting,What do you think?Alaska, Gov. Sarah Palin, McCain, Republican National Committee, ThreadPit.com

    Check out below as to how so people are just not too supportive of Senator John McCain and his running mate Sarah Palin….LMAO

    “You can spend your time piping petroleum in protected public parks, peddling pro-life propaganda for unplanned pregnancies, and putting lipstick on pigs, polar bears, and police state politics. We’ll provide poignant parodies of your party’s predictable platforms and pathetic public policies……”
    The above picture and quote is actually a T-Shirt you can find on ThreadPit.com!  Unbelievable huh? I actually think it pretty much sums up McCain’s campaign strategies! lol….Moving right along though….
    Have you ever wondered what the deal is with Sarah Palin? What is her real purpose in this campaign…let’s review shall we:

    Sarah Palin

    AP / Getty Images / AP

    •  First off…the Republican National Committee spends more than $150,000 to clothe and accessorize the Alaskan VP  beauty
    • Palin allegedly abused her power while in office in Alaska by attempting to get her brother-in-law fired from his position
    • Lastly, an investigation has been launched against Gov. Palin who allegedly charged the state for her children to travel with her, including to events where they were not invited, and later amended expense reports to specify that they were on official business.  The charges included costs for hotel and commercial flights for three daughters to join Palin to watch their father in a snowmobile race, and a trip to New York, where the governor attended a five-hour conference and stayed with 17-year-old Bristol for five days and four nights in a luxury hotel. In all, Palin has charged the state $21,012  
    With all that said…..do you really want Palin running this country one day in the case that McCain is incapable of doing so……..Now please click on the link below for more reasons why Palin should go salin’ bye bye…..lol
    http://www.palinaspresident.com/
    Posted by Beautiful Stranger at 1:34 pm 0 Comments
    • Oct
      13th
      2008
    • Preserving Our Environment! :) – Thx Cher!!

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    SECTION: Food for Thought,Life Is A .....,Our Environment/Saving the World,What is your purpose in life?Al Gore, Cesar Chavez, Chemical, Community, Detox, Energy, Global Warming, Go Green, research, Waste Less

     

    You ever wanted to save the world, but know you couldn’t do it alone?  There are ways to make this happen….really!!!  One step at a time….(Read Below)

    10 Little and Big Things You Can Do

    1. Power down! A great deal of the resources we use and the waste we create is in the energy we consume. Look for opportunities in your life to significantly reduce energy use: drive less, fly less, turn off lights, buy local seasonal food (food takes energy to grow, package, store and transport), wear a sweater instead of turning up the heat, use a clothesline instead of a dryer, vacation closer to home, buy used or borrow things before buying new, recycle. All these things save energy and save you money. And, if you can switch to alternative energy by supporting a company that sells green energy to the grid or by installing solar panels on your home, bravo!
    2. Waste less. Per capita waste production in the U.S. just keeps growing. There are hundreds of opportunities each day to nurture a Zero Waste culture in your home, school, workplace, church, community. This takes developing new habits which soon become second nature. Use both sides of the paper, carry your own mugs and shopping bags, get printer cartridges refilled instead of replaced, compost food scraps, avoid bottled water and other over packaged products, upgrade computers rather than buying new ones, repair and mend rather than replace….the list is endless! The more we visibly engage in re-use over wasting, the more we cultivate a new cultural norm, or actually, reclaim an old one!
    3. Talk to everyone about these issues. At school, your neighbors, in line at the supermarket, on the bus…A student once asked Cesar Chavez how he organized. He said, “First, I talk to one person. Then I talk to another person.” “No,” said the student, “how do you organize?” Chavez answered, “First I talk to one person. Then I talk to another person.” You get the point. Talking about these issues raises awareness, builds community and can inspire others to action.
    4. Make Your Voice Heard. Write letters to the editor and submit articles to local press. In the last two years, and especially with Al Gore winning the Nobel Peace Prize, the media has been forced to write about Climate Change. As individuals, we can influence the media to better represent other important issues as well. Letters to the editor are a great way to help newspaper readers make connections they might not make without your help. Also local papers are often willing to print book and film reviews, interviews and articles by community members. Let’s get the issues we care about in the news.
    5. DeTox your body, DeTox your home, and DeTox the Economy. Many of today’s consumer products – from children’s pajamas to lipstick – contain toxic chemical additives that simply aren’t necessary. Research online (for example, http://www.cosmeticsdatabase.com/) before you buy to be sure you’re not inadvertently introducing toxics into your home and body. Then tell your friends about toxics in consumer products. Together, ask the businesses why they’re using toxic chemicals without any warning labels. And ask your elected officials why they are permitting this practice. The European Union has adopted strong policies that require toxics to be removed from many products. So, while our electronic gadgets and cosmetics have toxics in them, people in Europe can buy the same things toxics-free. Let’s demand the same thing here. Getting the toxics out of production at the source is the best way to ensure they don’t get into any home and body.
    6. Unplug (the TV and internet) and Plug In (the community). The average person in the U.S. watches T.V. over 4 hours a day. Four hours per day filled with messages about stuff we should buy. That is four hours a day that could be spent with family, friends and in our community. On-line activism is a good start, but spending time in face-to-face civic or community activities strengthens the community and many studies show that a stronger community is a source of social and logistical support, greater security and happiness. A strong community is also critical to having a strong, active democracy.
    7. Park your car and walk…and when necessary MARCH! Car-centric land use policies and life styles lead to more greenhouse gas emissions, fossil fuel extraction, conversion of agricultural and wildlands to roads and parking lots. Driving less and walking more is good for the climate, the planet, your health, and your wallet. But sometimes we don’t have an option to leave the car home because of inadequate bike lanes or public transportation options. Then, we may need to march, to join with others to demand sustainable transportation options. Throughout U.S. history, peaceful non-violent marches have played a powerful role in raising awareness about issues, mobilizing people, and sending messages to decision makers.
    8. Change your lightbulbs…and then, change your paradigm. Changing lightbulbs is quick and easy. Energy efficient lightbulbs use 75% less energy and last 10 times longer than conventional ones. That’s a no-brainer. But changing lightbulbs is just tinkering at the margins of a fundamentally flawed system unless we also change our paradigm. A paradigm is a collection of assumptions, concepts, beliefs, and values that together make up a community’s way of viewing reality. Our current paradigm dictates that more stuff is better, that infinite economic growth is desirable and possible, and that pollution is the price of progress. To really turn things around, we need to nurture a different paradigm based on the values of sustainability, justice, health, and community.
    9. Recycle your trash…and, recycle your elected officials. Recycling saves energy and reduces both waste and the pressure to harvest and mine new stuff. Unfortunately, many cities still don’t have adequate recycling systems in place. In that case you can usually find some recycling options in the phone book to start recycling while you’re pressuring your local government to support recycling city-wide. Also, many products – for example, most electronics – are designed not to be recycled or contain toxics so recycling is hazardous. In these cases, we need to lobby government to prohibit toxics in consumer products and to enact Extended Producer Responsibility (EPR) laws, as is happening in Europe. EPR is a policy which holds producers responsible for the entire lifecycle of their products, so that electronics company who use toxics in their products, have to take them back. That is a great incentive for them to get the toxics out!
    10. Buy Green, Buy Fair, Buy Local, Buy Used, and most importantly, Buy Less. Shopping is not the solution to the environmental problems we currently face because the real changes we need just aren’t for sale in even the greenest shop. But, when we do shop, we should ensure our dollars support businesses that protect the environment and worker rights. Look beyond vague claims on packages like “all natural” to find hard facts. Is it organic? Is it free of super-toxic PVC plastic? When you can, buy local products from local stores, which keeps more of our hard earned money in the community. Buying used items keeps them out of the trash and avoids the upstream waste created during extraction and production. But, buying less may be the best option of all. Less pollution. Less Waste. Less time working to pay for the stuff. Sometimes, less really is more.

    Here’s a short little movie to match:  http://www.storyofstuff.com/

    THE MORE YOU KNOW…..

    Posted by Beautiful Stranger at 12:45 pm 0 Comments
    • Oct
      12th
      2008
    • FOOD FOR THOUGHT- THE ECONOMY & YOUR STATUS

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    SECTION: Food for Thought,What do you think?backup plan, cookiejar, Food for Thought, mattress, status, the economic crisis

     

    Where’s your money going?

     What are you going to do if the economic crisis  gets worse?  Where do you stand right now?  Do you have a backup plan….some extra money under the mattress or cookiejar?

    Think About It. Discuss. Review. Be Proactive.

     

    Posted by Beautiful Stranger at 5:54 am 0 Comments
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